Picture waking up each morning feeling genuinely secure that your partner loves you for who you are, not just for the company you provide.
The incessant texting, the desperate need for reassurance, the emotional rollercoaster—all things of the past.
How nice would it be to actually be able to enjoy the time you spend with them without that nagging fear that one wrong step could end it all? or that conflict is looming?
Imagine all those "wrong steps" become opportunities for deeper connection and understanding, affirming that your worthy of love and care even when you make a mistake.
You deserve love even in the messy moments.
Trapped in a cycle of emotional highs and lows, you probably...
Trapped in a cycle of emotional highs and lows, you probably...
Constantly wonder when you will finally be happy and in love, without all the toxic conflict and game playing.
Handle all the emotional legwork in your relationships, while your partners struggle to open up or express how they truly feel.
Work so hard to always be there for others, yet you feel like people don't show up for you in the way you need.
Realize that you might be choosing partners who are wrong for you, but you can't seem to figure out why or how to stop.
Have a painful voice that convinces you you'll always be alone and that you are inherently unloveable (leading you think that you have to just take what you can get, right?)
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Lets set the record straight
It's that your trauma triggers are forcing you into recreating familiar yet damaging dynamics with your partners. This cycle doesn't just alienate them; it keeps you stuck, mirroring the unresolved traumas of your childhood with no clear path forward.
It's not that you're unloveable.
Every change in your partner's mood, every rejection from a Tinder date, or even the slight delay in their text message triggers a cascade of self-doubt, anxiety, or even anger.
The result is that you end up stuck in a cycle where you're constantly seeking emotional closeness. Meanwhile, they pull away, feeling overwhelmed or smothered by the intensity.
This just reinforces your core belief that you're "unloveable" and that no one is ever going to show up for you in the way that you need.
Growing up in a toxic
home convinces you that abandonment is always near.
It's time that we change that.
How To Love After Childhood Trauma
introducing
A deeply transformative 13-module online program that will give you actionable strategies to effectively disrupt your trauma-driven cycles of self-doubt, toxicity, and sabotage so you can create the love your body so deeply craves.
"This course did an excellent job at helping me understand the ways I was projecting my past wounds on to my partners. The result is that I was either seeking out the wrong type of person or blaming healthy partners for things related to my unhealthy childhood. I am leaving this course with a new found understanding of how to manage my triggers, seek out healthy people, and a renowned confidence in asking for what I need! I can't recommend this course enough!"
— Rebecca
“As an anxiously attached person this course was a GAME CHANGER for me!”
By pinpointing the lingering trauma that's been the unseen puppeteer in your love life, you'll discover how much of your relationship behaviours are actually driven by unhealed childhood pain.
Continually choosing the wrong partners? Pursuing them relentlessly, even when they ask for a break or show little interest? That's what happens when trauma is in the drivers seat. Now that you have a soothed nervous system, we can actually equip you with the tools to escape these trauma-driven traps.
To facilitate genuine healing, we focus intently on your nervous system so that you can gain the necessary skills to regulate your emotions and prevent
past-rooted anxieties from sabotaging
your present-day relationships.
Here's What You'll Learn
Understand Your Trauma Legacy
Soothe Your Lingering Triggers
Phase One
Phase Two
LET'S BREAK it DOWN
Articulating your needs, having healthy & safe conflict, asserting your boundaries - all of these are crucial communication skills to achieving healthy love. After this section, you'll emerge as an expert communicator—skilled at dismantling defensiveness and fostering clear, constructive dialogue.
Continually choosing the wrong partners? Pursuing your partner relentlessly, even when they ask for a break or show little interest? That's what happens when trauma is in the drivers seat. Now that you have a soothed nervous system, we can actually equip you with the tools to escape these trauma-driven traps.
End Trauma
Driven Behaviour
Phase Three
To facilitate genuine healing, we focus intently on your nervous system so that you can gain the necessary skills to regulate your emotions and prevent past-rooted anxieties from sabotaging
your present-day relationships.
Is your current partner a healthy one? What about past ones? In this section, you learn to identify and connect with emotionally healthy partners so that you can move beyond the magnetic pull that often leads you to toxic relationships.
Discover
Healthy Partners
Phase Four
Is your current partner a healthy one? What about past ones? In this section, you learn to identify and connect with emotionally healthy partners so that you can move beyond the magnetic pull that often leads you to toxic relationships.
It's important to know when and how to walk away. In this section, we concentrate on boosting your confidence, empowering you to make the liberating decision to leave when or if your relationship turns into an emotional sinkhole, freeing you from the endless cycles of anxiety and codependency.
Know Your
True Worth.
Phase Six
In this section, we concentrate on boosting your confidence, empowering you to make the liberating decision to walk away when or if your relationship turns into an emotional sinkhole, freeing you from the endless cycles of anxiety and codependency.
Articulating your needs, having safe & healthy conflict, asserting your boundaries - all of these are crucial communication skills to achieving healthy love. After this section, you'll emerge as an expert communicator—skilled at dismantling defensiveness and fostering clear, constructive dialogue.
Master Healthy Communication
Phase Five
These are the breakthroughs you're about to experience:
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Finally understand what happened to you in childhood and how it's driving your present relationships.
Heal your nervous system and soothe your triggers so you can finally feel that internal calm and 'good enough' feeling that you've longed for.
Ditch the cycle of overly pursuing your partners and sabotaging your own happiness so you can choose peace, every time.
Get clear on your specific needs and feel confident expressing them with both kindness and assertion.
Transform your communication so you can dissolve your partners defensiveness and finally be heard.
Arm yourself with the tools and confidence you need to leave the toxic relationships that show no signs of change.
Don't believe it's possible?
Check the stats
*Based on randomized survey data submitted from 'How to Love' Graduates
400+ Students
reported that the course elevated their sense of self-worth and self-love after experiencing childhood trauma.
reported that the course was instrumental in helping them create the love they had been longing for.
97% of Students
100% of Students
enrolled since How to Love took off two years ago.
reported that the course was fundamental in helping them recognize and stop their trauma-driven behaviours.
100% of Students
"I wish I'd had this class twenty years earlier! I was so frustrated from my romantic disasters that I took a break to raise my son. He's off to college now. Picking up the pieces, I learned through Morgan Pommell's excellent class all about WHY I kept repeating these patterns and how to break them. I no longer blame myself, and I am confident in my skills to manage rupture and repair in relationship. I highly recommend this class!"
Sarah wishes she did it sooner.
Sonia broke the cycle.
"The program really supported me in transitioning from a relationship that may have taken me down longer. After what seems like a lifetime of failed attempts at love, Morgan showed me that there is a way to stop the cycle."
"I’ve been to therapy and read books but this course has helped me in such a significant way! It helps you understand and recognize your relationship behavior and most importantly how to regulate your emotions. This course should seriously be taught in schools, it has changed my life, thank you Morgan!"
Jake found it more helpful than therapy.
Take it from past students
Are unsure if what you experienced was "trauma."
Are single or in a
serious relationship.
Feel like too much has
happened & it's not "fixable."
Have a partner who isn't willing to do any work.
Never been
to therapy.
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You can learn how to love after childhood trauma even if you...
We can't control our partners, but by changing how you show up, you are both forced to confront the new reality of your relationship.
I have successfully helped people create healthy love after 40 years of trauma driven behaviour; it's never too late.
This course is a practical "how-to" guide designed for those ready to put in the everyday work—no previous experience in therapy is necessary.
This program is about reconnecting you with yourself and examining how you can show up better romantically; your current relationship status doesn't matter.
It's okay if the traditional definition of 'trauma' doesn't fit for you. If the past is impacting your present relationships, this course was designed for you.
Don't know if you can get
help from an online program.
This isn't a typical online program - it is strategically designed to get you results. I use my years of working in education to help you actually see changes.
who you want to be with, and who you aspire to be while you're with them.
When you can understand how your past is showing up in your present, you cut through the confusion that often sabotages your love life and your personal self-esteem.
The inevitable result is that your relationships evolve from being a series of painful trauma responses to becoming conscious choices rooted in your unwavering self worth.
This course isn't just about building healthy relationships with others. It's also about healing the one you have with yourself.
By mastering your triggers and transforming the lasting impact of your childhood, you clarify two things:
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instant access to all course materials
E-workbook with homework assignments
1 year access to the course
bonus! worksheets on setting boundaries
1 payment of $497 usd
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INSTANT ACCESS TO ALL COURSE MATERIALS
E-WORKBOOK WITH HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENTS
1 YEAR ACCESS TO THE COURSE
BONUS! WORKSHEETS ON SETTING BOUNDARIES
2 payments of $297 USD
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I'm Morgan, and I help you get a handle on your past so it stops sabotaging your present.
As a certified relationship coach and a Doctoral researcher, I have taken the tools and expertise I have gained over the past 10 years and built a framework that teaches you how to let go of your trauma driven behaviours - like lashing out aggressively, becoming overly demanding, or choosing the wrong partners - and move towards romantic connection with skill, ease, and confidence.
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"I learned so much from this course and recommend it to friends and family. I now feel much more confident that I can communicate with my partner, and I can see our relationship is changing for the better already, thank you so much Morgan!"
— Shayla
“This course was more helpful than therapy”
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— timothy
“This program helped me level-up my business!”
Boundaries are the unsung heroes of healthy relationships. They're not just lines in the sand; they're your personal code for what's acceptable and what's not. By setting clear boundaries, you protect your emotional well-being, demonstrate self respect, and finally feel safe in your relationships.
Grab your seat today and get my bonus boundaries workbook!
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Knowing your worth and what you bring to the table, eliminating the constant need for external validation.
Expressing your needs and boundaries clearly, without the fear of abandonment or rejection.
Choosing partners based on compatibility and shared values, not just to fill an emotional void.
Transforming arguments into constructive conversations, as you now de-escalate discussions and avoid activating your anxious tendencies.
After learning to love peacefully, your life looks like this:
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Experiencing a balanced give-and-take of emotional support, moving away from one-sided dynamics where you're doing all the work.
No longer seeking validation by comparing yourself to others, especially your partner's ex, because you know your unique worth.
This course is designed to demonstrate what healthy relationship behavior actually looks like—something you likely didn't experience growing up. By applying the principles you learn here, you're providing yourself with emotional nurturing you always needed but never received.
Ready to feel experience peaceful relationships?
This is for you if:
You are ready to feel chosen not just by others, but by yourself.
You know your childhood impacts the way you show up in relationships.
You are tired of working so hard just to be happy in your relationships.
It's probably not for you if...
You aren't wanting to see your role in creating your relationship distress.
You aren't ready to give up on the toxicity and conflict.
You want a one-size fits all approach that is tailored to everyone
Pay in Full
instant access to all course materials
E-workbook with homework assignments
1 year access to the course
bonus! worksheets on setting boundaries
1 payment of $497
Payment Plan
INSTANT ACCESS TO ALL COURSE MATERIALS
E-WORKBOOK WITH HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENTS
1 YEAR ACCESS TO THE COURSE
BONUS! WORKSHEETS ON SETTING BOUNDARIES
2 payments of $297
Select the plan that works for you
Want to take the course AND have access to me? Purchase a coaching package add on here
How long do I have access to the course for?
You will be able to access the course for one year from the date of purchase.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I get access to you?
Should I be in a relationship for this course?
Many people take this course when they are not in a relationship, as it allows them the space and time to focus on their own emotional growth and relational patterns without the added burden of an active partnership.
The course is pre-recorded, but you can upgrade to a 1:1 coaching package with me here.
How long will it take for me to complete the course?
There are 13 modules, some ranging from 10 minutes to 45 minutes. Some people report finishing it in a weekend, others took time to do it over a couple months. The choice is yours.
I saw somewhere else that you're a therapist. Is this therapy?
No part of this course should be misconstrued as legitimate therapy for your mental health issues.
Can I get a refund if I don't like the course?
Due to the inherent nature of digital educational programs and the electronic transmission of same, there is a no refund policy for digital courses.
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